Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Babymoon in Europe Part 1

Last September, Jeremy and I planned a trip to Europe knowing it would probably be the last time we took a BIG trip for a while. We knew we wanted to start trying for a baby at the beginning of the year and everything worked out perfectly because we left for Europe when the baby was about 15 weeks. Although I wasn't feeling completely cured of the nausea (yeah that whole second trimester = honeymoon of pregnancy thing is a lie), I was a trooper and Baby S did pretty well eating bread, croissants, crepes and macaroons for 10 days in London and Paris. I studied in London for a summer (Baylor in Great Britain) and I had been to Paris a couple of times before, so I was excited to share these places with Jeremy since he had never been. One day he will do the same w/ me in Italy!

We took an overnight flight to London which was great because it made the time go by faster. I was actually able to sleep for about three or four hours straight so the nine hour flight went by pretty fast. I also watched one of the dumbest movies ever (How Do You Know), but hey, it was free and I was stuck on a plane. Jeremy slept for most of the flight since he can fall asleep in 2.4 seconds no matter where we are. The only bad part of the flight was how HUGE my ankles and feet were when we got off! I hope that wasn't a vision of month nine of the pregnancy because I was sure someone took my feet and traded them with an unfortunate, overweight woman with cankles.

Our good friends from Texas moved to London about a year ago. David and Sarah are some of our best friends from church and David and I work together at Volusion. David actually went to London to open the UK office for Volusion and he is basically the head honcho over there. We were so excited to see them and stay with them for a few days. We got to their cute little house just after lunchtime on Saturday. We were so tired and stinky! Their other friends from Texas were there visiting which overlapped with our first weekend there so we had fun with the whole crew. They all left for sightseeing while Jeremy and I napped, showered and prayed over my fat ankles.

 David and Sarah's cute little house!

Ella's boyfriend, Kirby, next to David's garden (he developed a British green thumb). Don't worry, Ella and Kirby keep up on Facebook and Ella hasn't met any other dogs to take his place.

We met up with them later at a pub next to the Globe Theater for our first English meal of fish and chips and mushy peas. I warned Jeremy about the mushy peas (mushy vegetables, his worst nightmare), but he ate a few and loved the rest of the fried meal.We did a little more sightseeing by the Thames walking by London Bridge and seeing St. Paul's Cathedral and the Tower Bridge. After a long walk we all went back to David and Sarah's for a relaxing evening of Apples to Apples, bread, cheese, olives and wine.


Fish and chips and mushy peas.

In front of St. Pauls Cathedral

The famous Globe Theater.
Day 2 in London

Our first full day in London was a FULL day! Our first stop was breakfast at a great restaurant called Tom's Kitchen which was in the old Somerset House. It's a beautiful old house (palace really) that has fountains in the middle that become a skating rink in the winter. There is a scene in Love Actually at the skating rink! Anyway, I had an awesome eggs benedict with eggs so fresh the yolks were orange, and Jeremy had some awesome waffles that I may or may not have eaten a lot of. He and the guys also had the most expensive breakfast drinks ever for £9.50 each. Hey, we were on vacation.

 The Somerset House fountains/ice skating rink w/ David and Sarah.

After breakfast and taking a quick look at the fountains of Somerset, we headed to the London Dungeon. Sarah basically had to drag me into this place because I hate stuff like this. It's basically a haunted house but the stories you hear inside are true stories like Jack the Ripper, Bloody Mary and Sweeny Todd. It was interesting but I HATE being scared and I was attached to Jeremy's arm the entire time. Fun history, not-so-fun being scared.

After the Dungeon, we headed to Trafalger square for some photo opps and then Harrods for some snacks, a new designer handbag and scarves. Okay, we just bought a cupcake and a cookie, but hey we can dream. My favorite part of Harrods, that I hadn't visited when I lived in London, was the pet section. Wow, let's talk about over-the-top. I did find a great new couch for Ella though!


Sarah had to head out of town for work that night so we headed back to the their neighborhood so she could get home. The rest of us walked to a local pub and restaurant called Charlotte's Place. The food was great and Jeremy got all artsy with the camera so here are a few shots. I had my first traditional English Sunday roast!


A traditional English Sunday Roast. The thing on top is Yorkshire Pudding, which is basically fried bread.

 Pork tenderloin

No European meal is complete without wine or beer!



Day 3 in London

I knew I had to go see the Volusion UK office while I was in London. I had to see where David was making all the magic happen, and also meet some of the guys I have talked with over IM but never met in person. The office was in a great location and had an awesome view! We had to take a photo for the Volusion culture board so here you go HR...


We had a nice lunch with David at one of his favorite local pubs where Jeremy got to try another local beer. I think that was his favorite part of London. After that, Jeremy and I headed to the Tower of London to see the famous Crown Jewels and all the other historical treasures inside. The armory building was pretty cool! It had really old knight's armor, weapons and even gifts that had been given by other countries. There was an Indian headdress given by a tribe in North America...that was pretty cool! The tiny little kid armor was kind of funny...I wonder if it was just a formality or if they had to wear it. I imagine it's pretty heavy!



The Tower took the better part of the day, but I knew I wanted to try to fit one more thing in. Baby S wasn't slowing me down. That's a lie. I got really hungry at one point (hangry as I like to say...hungry and angry). We headed over to the Embankment area to go to the London Eye. I was so excited to see a crepe stand outside the tube (subway) stop and I couldn't wait to inhale a crepe with Nutella and banana. Or not. We didn't have any cash and of course they didn't take cards. BOOOO! Neither did any other place we tried to go to. I was so hangry by that point that I gave in and just went to the stupid McDonald's to get a milkshake. I am embarrassed to say I had McDonald's while I was in Europe but it's the baby's fault. :) 

My hangry face

The London Eye is a huge sort of ferris wheel contraption but instead of seats, you get into these pods with several other families. It's awesome because you can see all of London from the top but the wheel goes REALLY slowly so after a while it's sort of boring. But, it's a must-do when you are in London so we hopped on for the 30ish minute ride and some photo opps. 

Big Ben and Parliament behind me.

In our pod.

We headed back to David and Sarah's apartment after that and were SO happy to find out David got burgers to grill. Yes, they grill burgers in the UK...or at least Americans working in the UK do. It was so nice just to chill out at a house that night and relax after a really long day. We watched some weird British TV and went to bed early.

Day 4 in London

This is one of my favorite days in London! I got to show Jeremy my old stompin' grounds in South Kensington. We headed over to that area and made a stop at Wafflemeister to have breakfast (dessert really). This place wasn't there when I lived in London which is probably a good thing...I would have gotten so fat.

Jeremy's "breakfast" waffle w/ strawberries, dark chocolate and whipped cream.

When I studied in London with Baylor in Great Britain, we lived at Imperial College. It's in a great location just a block away from Hyde Park and the Royal Albert Hall. Walking around there brought back so many awesome memories. Every student should have the chance to study abroad to expand their worldview and learn more about themselves. I am so glad I got to share this with Jeremy since it was such an important part of my college life. I met some of my best friends on that trip, and I learned so much about how to be independent and adventurous. But I digress...


Royal Albert Hall

Our plan after that was to head to Westminster Abbey and Buckingham Palace, but apparently President Obama had the same idea and he had not invited us. We got to the Abbey and they had the place shut down. They were clearing people out of the area because the President was about to come lay a wreath on the grave of the unknown soldier. This was kind of cool since it was a historic event. It was only the second official state visit a US president had ever made to the UK (the first being George W.) We were tempted to hang out across the street and wait for the presidential motorcade, but the rumor was that he would be another two hours so we decided to continue our sightseeing. 

Since the day before had been so long we decided to take it easy for the rest of the day. We headed to Picadilly Circus (sort of the Times Square of London) so Jeremy could say he had been there and then we went to Notting Hill. I love the Notting Hill area with its colorful quaint little houses and the Portobello Market. The only thing we got were some Cuban cigars for David and Jeremy to smoke that night, but we had fun strolling and browsing all the fun little stands. Unfortunately, we didn't run into Hugh Grant or Julia Roberts. Of course, we had to stop at a pub for another pint and then I had to get my ice cream (gelato in this case) fix. Funny story at the pub: Jeremy walked in and asked what a good local was. He wanted to try a local beer. The bar tender looked so confused. He then proceeded to tell Jeremy that a pub is actually called a "local." So, Jeremy had gone into a "local" asking what a good "local" was. It was funny! 

Notting Hill

Jeremy with his local beer from the "local."

We had a great time that night with David. He took us to a mall called Westfield that is similar to the Domain in Austin. It wasn't there when I lived in London and it was really nice! The restaurant options were great and we ended up at a pizza place that had pizzas from around the world called Fire and Stone...it was yummy! David and Jeremy made fun of me because I ordered the "Trinidad and Tobago" and basically scraped everything off to make it a cheese pizza. Hey...I do what the baby says!

Day 5 in London

Our last day in London was great! We went back to Westminster and it was honestly one of our favorite parts of the London trip (other than seeing our friends). There is so much history in that one place! When I had gone before w/ my Baylor group, they basically opened it up to us in the evening so we could have it to ourselves, but we didn't really have a tour. This time, we got the free audio tour (after we paid to get in) and it was fascinating! A few of my favorite things were: Handel's grave, Poet's Corner where a lot of famous poets and playwrights are buried (Chaucer, Dickens and Tennyson for example) and the choir loft where the choir boys sit. Oh, and we got a chance to snap some photos in front of Big Ben, the famous clock tower.

Westminster Abbey

My British-themed preggo belly picture at 16 weeks. :)

London was awesome! We were sad to go because it felt like a whirlwind, but we had exciting things waiting for us in Paris! To be continued...

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

I Think My Dog Has Pica

In the pregnancy book we have been reading, there is a section on pica. Apparently this happens with some pregnant women, but the thought of it mostly makes me want to hurl (more than I already do w/ the nausea). From Mr. Webster:

Pica-an abnormal desire to eat substances (as chalk or ashes) not normally eaten

Apparently, this is also pretty common in kids with autism, mental retardation and kids between the ages of two to three. They forgot to mention, it's common in puggles. According to this Kids Health website, here are some of the things that kids (or Ella) might try to eat:
 
•dirt
•clay
•paint chips
•plaster
•chalk
•cornstarch
•laundry starch
•baking soda
•coffee grounds
•cigarette ashes
•burnt match heads
•cigarette butts
•feces
•ice
•glue
•hair
•buttons
•paper
•sand
•toothpaste
•soap

Oh dear. Ella has eaten almost everything on that list and if you know her, you know she is OBSESSED with ice! It's seriously like crack for her...she will get all antsy and run and rebound off the freezer until you give her some.
 
Her most recent pica episode was last night when we went to play volleyball and left the dogs at home. I think she was mad because we both put our tennis shoes on and didn't take them for a walk. In her tiny little brain, tennis shoes = walk. Anyway, she got Jeremy's glasses, ate parts of them and destroyed them. She ate the plastic tips off the ends of the ear pieces and somehow got a lens out of the rimless frames.
 
I think I am having deja vu or maybe I am remembering back to a post from February 2009 when I wrote about how Ella ate MY glasses!! She definitely ate more of mine than she did Jeremy's, so maybe she won't be pooping plastic for quite as long but geeze! I don't even want to think about what she is going to do with poopy diapers, baby toys, spit-up rags and anything else she can get her little pica paws on!
 
My glasses from 2009
 

Jeremy's glasses from last night
 

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Pregnancy: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly (1st Trimester)

I want to preface this post by saying the good outweighs the bad by far. I mean c'mon, I am getting a beautiful little baby out of this whole thing! God has blessed us so much thus far and I can't wait to see this little miracle so I can give it lots of love!

Having said that, here's what I am finding so far (I am sure in the second and third trimester this list will change):

The Good

-Knowing the baby and I are healthy
-Our amazing doctor and nurses—LOVE THEM!
-Being able to stick w/ my Shaklee vitamins knowing they are all-natural and even more than a prenatal gives
-Seeing the baby move and wiggle around
-Sharing this experience with the most wonderful, supportive husband and soon-to-be-father (he already has the sonogram pic on our laptop wallpaper)
-Thinking about baby names (we don’t have any yet, so don’t ask)
-Our family and friends gathering around us, checking on us and celebrating with us
-Looking at baby/mommy websites
-(mostly for Jeremy) My craving for pizza, fruit and Tex-Mex…hopefully I will crave healthier things once the nausea is gone
-The overwhelming sense of selflessness and protectiveness I already feel because I love the baby so much
-Sharing my pregnancy with some other friends who are also preggo (near and far)
-Maternity clothes…most comfortable clothes ever!

The Bad
-The nausea
-The preggo nose (I smell everything SO strongly and from a mile away)
-The lack of desire to work out because of the nausea
-Emotional meltdowns
-Feeling like I can’t be a good wife because I don’t feel like doing the normal stuff I used to
-Weight gain
-Focusing and getting through work days feeling nauseous (luckily I have a super-supportive team!)

The Ugly
-The cellulite that is creeping into my bootie, hips and thighs
-The face I make during emotional meltdowns
-My denim maternity shorts that Jeremy lovingly calls Mom Jorts

They aren't this bad:

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Monday, April 25, 2011

We Are Preggo!

Well, mostly I am preggo, but Jeremy helped. Now that it's public, I can share a few thoughts about the experience so far.

Finding Out
I had a feeling I was pregnant but I didn't really say anything to Jeremy until we went to DC for our anniversary. We had only been trying for a month, but I warned Jeremy that I come from a pretty fertile family. :) After I told him in DC, he was ready to go down the street to the CVS and grab a test that night. He doesn't keep secrets well and doesn't like the anticipation. It was funny. But, I wanted to wait a little longer just in case. For some reason, I would have rather seen "Aunt Flow" than seen a "Not Pregnant" on a test. So, we waited until around the first of March on a Saturday morning and got to celebrate a "Pregnant" all weekend! It was so fun to have a little secret of our own for a while.


The First Doctor's Visit
Let's talk about places where most guys aren't super comfy: the tampon aisle, a fabric store and a doctor's office complete with stirrups and the ultrasound contraption. I think after the initial shock, Jeremy did great! We LOVE our doctor. Dr. Cowan is so friendly, knowledgeable and makes the dad feel so at ease. The nurses are great too! We got to see our baby for the first time at about five and 1/2 weeks. At that point it was basically a little speck with a heartbeat, but we were in awe. There was a beautiful little life growing inside me. We had a conversation on the way home about abortion, and the thought of killing that tiny little heartbeat made us both cringe. At the end of the appointment, the nurse gave us a bunch of resources and asked how I felt. I told her I felt great, to which she replied "yeah the nausea usually starts around week six or so." Sadly, she was right! :(

The Nausea
I have always been pretty healthy. I don't get sick very often and I usually always feel great with lots of energy. (Thank you Shaklee!!) BUT, unfortunately, nausea is something I can't control. Literally two days after that first appointment, I started feeling it. Oh, and I have no idea why they call it morning sickness. That is a lie from the devil. It's all-the-time sickness and it's not fun. I have found that if I keep food in my belly it helps, so I basically eat small meals and snack all day. The doctor gave me meds, but they made me constipated (sorry TMI) so I decided I would rather deal with nausea than the alternative. It's also funny how my appetite changed all of a sudden. If you know me, you know I love my coffee. I have no desire to drink it...in fact it makes me sick to think about right now. I feel the same way with salad, which Jeremy is fine with. I mostly just want carbs and fruit. So we eat a lot of pizza, Mexican food and I am pretty sure I take down an apple, banana and about four or five clementines in a day. Everyone says the nausea usually goes away after the first trimester and I am PRAYING it does.

The Second Appointment
We went to our second appointment at about week nine. The doctor mostly wanted us to come back for a more exact due date since we had gone so early the first time. When we saw the baby this time, Jeremy and I both gasped. It had grown so much! It actually looked like a baby (or a gummy bear with nubby arms and legs). I couldn't believe how much I fell in love with the baby in that moment and the four or five times I watched the DVD later on. This appointment was awesome because the baby actually moved and we learned our due date is 11/11/2011. How cool is that!!?

Sharing the News
I really wanted my Mom to know as soon as I found out, but I also knew I really wanted to tell her in person. So, our plan was to wait until Easter weekend when she was coming to visit. I wanted her to know before anyone...I figured that was only fair. :) Well, we ended up telling a few people a little earlier. Ironically, Brad and Jen (who had been lobbying for us to have a baby since they had just had theirs) invited us over for sushi. So, we sort of had to tell them. I told my manager at work because I felt like I was moving slower and mostly wanted to crawl under my desk most of the time because of the nausea. She was amazing and has been so supportive. We also had to tell Emily because she came in town and I just couldn't keep the secret...I had to tell my sister! I gave her an early b-day present...a baby toy! We got to tell a couple of other close friends, but then we decided we couldn't wait until Easter to tell my Mom. Luckily, she was going to Waco to see Emily the weekend before Easter, so we drove up to tell her and Dennis and then called my Dad, Jeremy's Dad and some other family on the way to Houston that weekend to tell Jeremy's Mom, Renae. It felt SO GOOD to finally be able to celebrate with people, and it was really good for me to be able to talk about how I felt with the moms who have been there. Jeremy is so patient and sweet, but I don't think any guys really know how it feels.

Supportive Community
It's so awesome to have a community of family and friends who are so supportive. They celebrate with us and get just as excited as we do. My Mom spoiled me this last weekend when she came to Austin and bought me a ton of super cute and comfy maternity clothes.

Sidenote: Maternity clothes are so freaking comfortable. Can I just wear them the rest of my life and be frumpy?

Anyway, the rest of our family has been great and our little Austin family is awesome too. My Dad sent us a card with $1 to start the kid's college fund. HAHA! My coworkers are even being super supportive and they are so excited for us. There are a couple of people at work who will even warn me before they make something smelly that they think will bother me. LOVE them!

I can't wait to be a Mommy and I can't wait to see Jeremy as a Daddy. He is such an amazing man and I have no doubt he will be very present in our kids' lives and show them what it means to be a person of integrity, love and Godliness. I have always had amazing women in my life to show me what it means to be a good Mommy and I hope to live up to everything they are.

I promise the next pre-baby posts won't be this long but I had a lot to say since we have been keeping a secret so long. So, here we go...on to this amazing new chapter in our lives!

Friday, March 18, 2011

A Practice of Prayer

In high school and part of college I kept a prayer journal. Honestly, it was sort of a diary in that I did a lot of venting, selfish praying and daily logging. At that time, I talked a lot about boys, friends, family issues and school problems. I need to dig those journals out and re-live those days. There are prayers in there from some tough times and I have no doubt I will run across some pretty funny stuff too. Ahh, the problems of a high school girl.

I have grown up a lot and I view prayer a little differently now. We have been talking a lot about prayer in our Tribe (community group) lately. It's crazy how differently people view prayer and the different practices across our group. We started a Lenten practice last week that I am so excited about. Each of us was grouped with a couple of other people and each day we e-mail our daily prayer to those people. It holds us accountable to actively sit down and pray each day. The best thing about this practice is that it allows us to open our hearts to our faith community. It may be behind the safety of a computer screen, but it's a start.

I also found that yoga has really revived my personal prayer life. I find myself going early and staying for a while afterward. I find a place of peace and relaxation, and it allows me to really focus my thoughts and my heart toward God.

I hope my prayer life continues to mature as my faith matures. It's hard sometimes and I have so many questions about prayer. But, no matter what, I always feel great after a little talk with my Maker.